By The Sexperts
There’s nothing worse than being bored or boring your partner when you get down to business. Are you and your partner tired of the “same-old, same-old” when it comes to the bedroom, or are you just looking to try something new? Carrying out a fantasy or fixation can go a long way to rejuvenate your love life.
People often feel too embarrassed to share these taboo fetishes with their partner, but when you’re already baring all, why keep them a secret? Experimenting with your own fantasies can take your partner by surprise and make the experience so much more exciting and pleasurable for both of you.
The best approach is to start off slow and see how your partner responds. You might get kicked in the face if you decide to try and suck your partner’s life force out of their toes. Get things started with some foreplay and if your partner is receptive, you can take things to the next level and show them a whole new world, as it were.
Since you’re trying something new, it’s more important than ever to establish a safe word so you don’t take things too far. You will be surprised how something as simple as playing the French maid, leather, gentle spanking, even balloons or putting on a gorilla costume (if that’s what you’re in to) can elevate sensation and intensity, and help avoid the rut of sexual complacency.
But what if you have an extremely strange fetish? When it comes to sex, nothing is too “weird.” Let your imagination guide you to the perfect sexual experience. Not everything you try is going to be kosher with your partner, but you’ll never know if you don’t try, and if you don’t try, you’re missing out. Your partner may think they know all your tips *cough cough* and tricks, but nothing will get them more intrigued than when you pull out the pink fuzzy handcuffs or whatever else you found in the back of Spencer’s.
Have fun and always remember to keep it SAFE!