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Managing Monogamy


By The Sexperts


If you’re in a long-term monogamous relationship, you may find that things just aren’t as exciting as they used to be. After several months or years, sex with the same person has become a habit instead of a way to express your passion for the other. This is a problem that many couples face, but there’s no reason you have to take it lying down; there are plenty of positions, and other tricks to try out that can add the spark back to your love life.

First, the Sexperts have already talked about how feeding into fetishes can change things up in the bedroom and keep both parties excited. What else is there that can add spice to a bland sex life? The answer is toys. Sex toys are a great way to experiment with your wild side, and can make any sexual encounter more fun. I’m not saying you need to breakout the strap-on and the vibrating butt plug – start with something simple like a cock ring – but by all means, if you and your partner are into the double-ended dildo, go for it!

Experiment with different positions. If you and your partner are stuck in the go-to missionary position time after time, you should expand your horizons. There are plenty of exciting positions that can make a huge difference in your sex life. Read the Kamasutra, a Cosmo magazine, the end of Sexpert articles, or watch a porn together for tips on new positions you may have never tried before.

Foreplay is extremely important! Have you ever tried starting up an old car on a cold morning? It’s the same concept; you need to warm up your partner before they’re ready to run the race. Foreplay before sex is a great way to change things up every time, so things never get boring. Likewise, it helps to get you and your partner in the mood, so that when the time comes the experience will be elevated. Foreplay can also help you express your passion and love for your partner. Let monogamy never be monochrome again.

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